Our
text for today’s message comes from Luke’s gospel: “Now He was telling them
a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not to lose
heart, saying, “In a certain city there was a judge who did not fear God
and did not respect man. There was a widow in that city, and she kept coming to
him, saying, ‘Give me legal protection from my opponent. ’For a while he was
unwilling; but afterward he said to himself, ‘Even though I do not fear God nor
respect man, yet because this widow bothers me, I will give her legal
protection, otherwise by continually coming she will wear me out.’” And the
Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge *said; now, will not God bring
about justice for His elect who cry to Him day and night, and will He delay
long over them? I tell you that He will bring about justice for them quickly. However,
when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?” Luke
18:1-8
The
context of this passage takes us to the preceding chapter 17 which describes
the lengthy and severe persecutions Christians will face in the last
days. Both Matthew and Mark – as well as many of the New Testament writers --
speak the same warning. We won’t take time to turn there now, but you can read
the 10th and the 24th chapters of Matthew, the 13th
chapter of Mark, and the 21st chapter of Luke on your own to review
what Scripture tells us what to expect in those days in particular – and as a
faithful follower of Christ in general. As Paul warned Timothy: “Indeed, all
who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.” (2 Timothy
3:12)
The
bloody persecutions that have overtaken Christians in the past, and the
persecutions that will overtake Christians in the future have caused and WILL
cause many to fall away from the faith they’d once professed. And it’s little
wonder that the Lord asked a rhetorical but troubling question of us – “When
the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?”
John
Calvin interpreted the Lord’s question as a warning that genuine faith will
become increasingly scarce as prolonged suffering and injustice cause many Christians
to lose confidence in God’s providence, power, and supremacy over nations and
circumstances. He said, “There will be almost none to look for him.” Based
also on this passage in Luke’s gospel and warnings throughout the New
Testament, 19th century evangelical theologians – Jamieson, Fausset,
and Brown – also agreed that the hope of Christ’s return will nearly disappear
among Christians because of the lengthy and bloody persecutions.
As
I meditated on these points, God’s word to Jeremiah during the days just before
the Babylonian invasion of Jerusalem came to mind: “If you have run with the
footmen, and they have wearied you, then how can you match yourself with
horses? And if you thought yourself safe in a peaceable land, what will you do
in the swelling of Jordan?” Jeremiah 12:5
The
historical context of this Jeremiah passage is different from the context of
today’s message, but the principle remains the same: If we cannot hold faith
during times of relative peace when God says ‘No’ to our prayers, what do we
think we will do in times of prolonged distress when we face persecutions and
God seems so silent to our prayers?
That’s
why it MATTERS that we grow in our faith toward God NOW, while things are
relatively peaceful, and when God says ‘no’, even when we do not understand His
delay, and when we don’t understand what He is doing with us and around us –
politically, economically, or socially.
So,
having said all this, let’s focus on today’s primary question – when God says,
‘no’ – what then? How often have you asked the Lord to do something and He
didn’t do it? You asked for healing for yourself or someone else? You prayed to
save a marriage, or for Him to get that job either for yourself or someone
else. Or any of a dozen other prayers important to you – and God didn’t do as you
asked?
How
often have you asked God for something and He flat-out said ‘No’? Like when He
told Moses flat-out that he could not enter the Promised Land. (Deuteronomy 3).
Or when He told the great apostle Paul that He would not heal his distressing
‘thorn’ – whatever that thorn was. (2 Corinthians 12). Or when He would not do
what His only begotten Son asked three times in the Garden of Gethsemane for
Him to do. (Luke 22)
There’s
not a Christian who’s ever lived who hasn’t had that sad experience when God
says, “No” to some prayers. And that segues into the reason for this message
today, because I know from personal experience that Satan will use those times
to try to convince us of one of several lies: Either God doesn’t care, or God
doesn’t hear you, or you don’t have enough faith to get prayers answered, or
that you’re not really a child of God.
I
remind us of Jesus in the wilderness, very tired and very hungry. It was then,
at His lowest emotional point, that Satan lied to him. It was then, at the
Lord’s lowest point, when the devil tried to get Him to question His
relationship with His Father: “If you are the Son of God”—do this, or, “If you
are the Son of God” do that.
Remember
– Jesus was as human as you and I, and therefore just as susceptible to
temptations as we are. The only difference between Jesus and the rest of
humanity is that He never succumbed to temptation of any kind. He remained
completely sinless – unlike the rest of us.
Of
course, Satan knew perfectly well who Jesus was. He knew that “In the
beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He
was in the beginning with God. All things came into being through Him, and
apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being.” (John
1:1-3)
Satan
knew, “For by [the Father] all things were created, both in the heavens and
on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or
authorities—all things have been created through [Christ] and for [Christ].”
Colossians 1:16
The
devil knew all things were created through Christ – including himself and his
fallen angels. And don’t overlook this: Satan knows perfectly well who YOU
are in Christ, that you are a son or a daughter of God. But as Satan tried
to do with the Lord, he tries to do with us, also – to introduce a seed of
doubt into our hearts, especially when God says ‘no.’
So,
back to our question, “When God Says ‘No’ – Then What?” How do we reconcile His
‘No’ with passages such as: Psalm 145:17 “The Lord is righteous in all His
ways and kind in all His deeds.” and Psalm 116:5 “Gracious is the Lord,
and righteous; Yes, our God is compassionate.” And Lamentations 3:22-23 “The
Lord’s lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, for His compassions never fail. They
are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness”?
But
before we can address the ‘Then What?” we need to remind ourselves and let the
Lord firmly convince us of a fundamental truth, that being: The Bible from the
first word in Genesis to the last word in Revelation is completely and
unimpeachably authoritative, inerrant, infallible, and divinely inspired. Every
word.
As
the psalmist said, “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous
do?” (Psalm 11:3) And in this case I will define the ‘foundations’ as the
word of God because, as the Lord tells us: Matthew 24:3 Heaven and earth
will pass away, but My words will not pass away.”
If
we dilute the reliability, the trustworthiness of God’s word, then how can
anyone stand against the onslaughts of life? That means, if we don’t believe
the creation story as recorded in that first chapter of Genesis, if we don’t
believe that God created Adam from the dust and Eve from one of his ribs, if we
don’t believe the record of a worldwide flood, or the miraculous plagues that decimated
the Egyptians, if we don’t believe that all the miracles of Christ occurred as
recorded – then how can we have confidence that God even hears our most
desperate prayers?
If
the written record of God and His works are suspect, then His promise through
Isaiah is meaningless: “For the mountains may be removed and the hills may
shake, but My lovingkindness will not be removed from you.” (Isaiah 54:10a).
Likewise, His promise through Jeremiah is worthless: “I have loved you
with an everlasting love; therefore, I have continued my faithfulness to you.”
Christian,
we MUST be certain of this: His love and mercy and compassion are directed
toward us even when He says ‘No’ to some of our prayers. Which then raises a
reasonable question: WHY then might God say ‘no’? Well, He gives us several
reasons, and in the time we have left, let’s examine only a few.
The
first reason for His ‘No’ can be stated simply: We just don’t know why He might
say ‘no.’ This is not a dodge of the question. It’s simply truth. Listen to Him
for a moment through Isaiah: “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are
your ways My ways,” declares the Lord.” (Isaiah 55:8)
And
now in the Book of Job: “Can you discover the depths of God? Can you
discover the limits of the Almighty? They are high as the heavens, what can you
do? Deeper than Sheol, what can you know? Its measure is longer than the earth
and broader than the sea.” (Job 11:7-9)
But
it is BECAUSE we have complete confidence in the Bible as God’s inerrant love
letter to us that we can ACCEPT this reason for His ‘No.’ We can accept the
truth cradled in His love, that His ways and His answers are far above our
ability to understand, but we have the blessed assurance that He deeply loves
us – even when He says, ‘No.” And the words of the Proverb soothes our spirit, to
help us trust in the Lord with all our heart and not lean on our own
understanding. (See Proverbs 3:5)
Those
who believe the trustworthiness of the Bible in the deepest recesses of their
heart believe that our God sees the whole picture, whereas we see only a small
part of it. Therefore, a prayer request that seems reasonable to us simply
might not serve God’s larger purposes – and the one who is striving to love God
with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength will bend the knee to God’s
purpose and will say – even if it is a struggle to say it: “Not my will but
Thine be done.”
Of
course, this is not to say that everything that happens is good in and of itself.
But the humble Christians believes God when He tells us that He works good even
through painful circumstances. The words of Paul to the Roman Christians are
more than theoretical words on a page as we read: “And we know that God
causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who
are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28
Those
words are life-sustaining food for our souls – so much so that, with God’s
supernatural help, when Christ returns, He WILL find faith in our heart.
So,
yes. Sometimes we simply do not know why God says, ‘No’ to our prayers. But on
the other hand, Scripture tells us there are times when we can – or at least, SHOULD
know – why God says ‘no.’
Let’s
be very clear about this next point. Persistent, unrepentant sin blocks our
prayer. Listen to the Psalmist: (Psalm 66:18, GNT): “If I had ignored my
sins, the Lord would not have listened to me.” Through Isaiah (Isaiah
59:1-2): “Behold, the Lord’s hand is not so short that it cannot save; Nor
is His ear so dull that it cannot hear. But your iniquities have made a
separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden His face from
you so that He does not hear.”
And
while Scripture does not teach that every unanswered prayer is caused by sin,
it DOES explicitly identify several ways that sin can hinder our prayers. For
example: When we ignore the financial needs of others when we are in a position
to assist them: Proverbs 21:13, NKJV “Whoever shuts his ears to the cry of
the poor will also cry himself and not be heard.”
And
1 John 3:17-19: “But whoever has the world’s goods, and sees his brother in
need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him? Little
children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth. We
will know by this that we are of the truth and will assure our heart before Him.”
Another
manifestation of sin comes in the form of practicing injustice, or
supporting those who do so with our votes and finances. What God said to
His Chosen People He also says to us:
Proverbs
24:11-12 “Deliver those who are being taken away to death, and those who are
staggering to slaughter, Oh hold them back. If you say, “See, we did not know
this,” Does He not consider it who weighs the hearts? And does He not know it
who keeps your soul? And will He not render to man according to his work?”
And
through Isaiah: (Isaiah 1:15–17) “So when you spread out
your hands in prayer, I will hide My eyes from you; Yes, even though you
multiply prayers, I will not listen. Your hands are covered with blood. “Wash
yourselves, make yourselves clean; Remove the evil of your deeds from My sight.
Cease to do evil, Learn to do good; Seek justice, reprove the ruthless, defend
the orphan, plead for the widow.”
Make
no mistake: We should expect that known and unrepented sin will result in a
‘No’ from our holy God who is not impressed by worship that coexists with iniquity.
And that is why 1 John 1:9 is so precious to the Christian: “If we confess
our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us
from all unrighteousness.”
Another
manifestation of sin comes in the form of seeking things with selfish motives:
James 4:3 “You ask and do not receive, because you ask
with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures” – such as asking
God to remove every difficulty without considering what He might accomplish
through such circumstances. Or asking God to bless a decision we’ve already
made without being willing to submit that decision to His will. We should not
expect God to treat our requests as though our deliberate rejection of His
instruction were inconsequential.
Let me try to bring
this to a conclusion. What shall you and I do when God
says, ‘No’? Shall we turn away in anger, or disappointment? Or shall we live as
the faithful men and women through the ages who trusted God and strove to love
Him so much that not even the deepest soul-wrenching heartache – no, not even
hearing Him say ‘No” to our prayers – nothing shall move us from our faithful
relationship with Him and Him alone?
Will we humbly ask Him if sin has caused a separation between us?
Will we ‘examine ourselves’ with the light of the Holy Spirit searching us, to see
if there be any wicked way in us?
Our Father in heaven loves us. Don’t give even a moment’s thought to Satan’s lies to the contrary. “The Lord IS righteous in all His ways and kind in ALL His deeds.” The Lord IS gracious and righteous. “Yes, our God is compassionate.” And His “lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; Great is [His] faithfulness.”
God’s overarching and oft stated purpose for all of His children is
to conform us each into the image of Jesus (Romans 8:29) who – we must add –
who learned obedience by the things which He suffered (Hebrews 5:8)
Mature faith is not confidence that God will do
as we ask; Mature faith is confidence in God – even when He does not do
as we ask.
Christian – when the Lord returns, may He find faith – mature and maturing faith – in each of our hearts. Amen