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Sunday, September 26, 2021

The Deity of Jesus, Part Two

Sermon Sept 26, 2021

Deity of Jesus – Part Two

 

As I talked about briefly last week, without the resurrection of Jesus, there is no such thing as true Christianity. Without the resurrection of Jesus, there is no hope for our salvation. Without the resurrection of Jesus, every person on this planet is doomed to an eternity away from God’s presence.

 

Last week I preached part one of my theme devoted to the Bible-based truth of the Trinity and the deity of Jesus. Why am I focusing on the deity of Jesus? Well, just as the resurrection of Christ is vital to our salvation, without belief in the deity of Jesus, there is no salvation.

 

We are not talking about three gods when we talk of the trinity. We are talking of only One God whom Christians know as the Father, the Son of the Father (Jesus) and the Holy Spirit, who are of one nature, one essence, co-equal and co-eternal with each other. Each a distinct person, yet each identified as God.

 

Last time we also looked briefly at the definition of the word ‘incarnation’ as it applies to Jesus. It means the triune God whom we know as Jehovah (or more accurately perhaps, Yahweh) BECAME human with flesh and blood.

 

We also looked at some of the more common objections to what true Christians have believed about Jesus’ deity since the inception of the first century, and the Scriptures which easily dismiss those objections.

 

On numerous occasions, Jesus made direct claims to His deity. And the first century religious scholars understood exactly what He was saying because they kept trying to stone Him for blasphemy. In addition to His direct claims to deity, He also made many indirect statements which, in context with the whole New Testament, also identify Him as God incarnate.

 

But before we look at some of those other texts, let’s first look back into the Old Testament and what it says about Christ’s deity. Why? Because we simply cannot understand the New Testament without a clear understanding of the Old Testament. And neither can we understand the Old Testament without a clear understanding of the New. As St. Augustine correctly noted, "In the Old Testament is concealed in the New, and the New Testament is revealed in the Old."

 

So, let’s look at some of the Old Testament prophecies regarding the deity of Messiah Jesus. For example, Isaiah 7:14 – “Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, a virgin will be with child and bear a son, and she will call His name Immanuel” (i.e. ‘God with us.’) 

 

It is important to note that some modern Bible translators mistranslate the Hebrew word for virgin in this text as ‘young woman.’ We cannot take time now to speculate why such a mistranslation made it through their editorial committees, but let it suffice for now to only say that the Holy Spirit gives us the true meaning of that Isaiah text in the New Testament gospels. Here is how the He inspired St. Matthew to refer to that prophecy about Jesus: “Behold, the virgin shall be with child and shall bear a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel,” which translated means, “God with us.” (Matthew 1:23)

 

Two chapters later in Isaiah we also read: “For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; And the government will rest on His shoulders; And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace.” (9:6)

 

Throughout Scripture, names were often given to a person not simply as a label by which people could identify each other, but names also often expressed what was – or what was hoped would be – the nature and essence of the person or thing being given the name. We see that as early as Genesis two when God charged Adam with giving names to all the animals. Later in Genesis, God changed Abram’s name to Abraham to mark the destiny of the man as the Father of a Multitude. And later again in Genesis, God changed Jacob’s name – which meant supplanter or deceiver to ‘Israel’ – one who strives with God.

 

And so, here in this Isaiah passage, God tells us what Messiah’s ‘name’ will be called. Hear it once again: Mighty God. Eternal Father. Prince of Peace.

 

Remember now God’s commandment to Israel through Moses: “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. “You shall have no other gods before Me.” (Exodus 20:2-3). The primary reason God sent them into devastating exile was precisely because they did not keep that commandment. And so it is no surprise that during the ensuing centuries, God continued to remind them of that first commandment. Through Isaiah He again said: “I am the Lord, that is My name; I will not give My glory to another, Nor My praise to graven images.” (Isaiah 42:8) A few chapters later, Yahweh said, “ . . . Is there any God besides Me, Or is there any other Rock? I know of none.’” Isaiah 44:8 And once again in 45:6 the Almighty said, “. . . .There is no one besides Me. I am the Lord, and there is no other . . .” (Isaiah 45:6)

Fast forward to the New Testament. When Jesus appeared to the 11 apostles after His resurrection, Thomas fell at Jesus’ feet and called Him: “My Lord and my God” (John 20:28). But Jesus did not correct him. Instead, what otherwise would have been extreme blasphemy, He ACCEPTED worship due only to God Himself.

 

The there was the time when Phillip asked Jesus to show them the Father. Jesus answered, Have I been with you so long, and yet you have not known Me, Philip? He who has seen Me has seen the Father; so how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’?  Do you not believe that I am in the Father, and the Father in Me? (John 14:9-10).

 

Once again, if He is not God then Jesus is worse than a devil to say such a thing.

 

All these examples, and more, of Jesus’ claim to be God is the reason that C. S. Lewis wrote: “I am trying here to prevent anyone saying the really foolish thing that people often say about Him [that is, Christ]: ‘I’m ready to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but I don’t accept His claim to be God.’ That is the one thing we must not say. A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic–on a level with the man who says he is a poached egg–or else he would be the Devil of Hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God: or else a madman or something worse…. You can shut Him up for a fool, you can spit at Him and kill Him as a demon; or you can fall at His feet and call Him Lord and God. But let us not come up with any patronizing nonsense about His being a great human teacher. He has not left that open to us. He did not intend to.”

 

In the incarnation, the invisible God became visible in Christ; deity was clothed with humanity. Here is how the writer to the Hebrews said it:

“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact expression of his nature, sustaining all things by his powerful word.” (Hebrews 1:3, CSB)

 

In other words, all that God is, Christ is.

So critical to our salvation is the belief in the co-equality of Jesus with the Father and the Holy Spirit that St. Paul wrote to the church at Galatia: “But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to what we have preached to you, he is to be accursed! As we have said before, so I say again now, if any man is preaching to you a gospel contrary to what you received, he is to be accursed!” (Galatians 1:8-9)

 

I hope that between what I preached last week and what I am saying in today’s message that I have sufficiently demonstrated by the Scriptures that Jesus is precisely who He said He is – Jehovah God in the flesh.

 

So, in the time remaining, let me bring us to the REASONS our confession of Jesus’ deity is critical to our salvation. I will focus on only three:

 

First:  If Jesus is not Jehovah God incarnate in flesh and blood, then everything Jesus said about His deity, and everything the apostles said of His deity was a lie.

 

I repeat that for emphasis: If Jesus is not Jehovah God incarnate, then everything He said about His deity, and everything the apostles said of His deity was a lie.  

 

And if His deity is a lie, then what else do we read in Scripture is a lie? The virgin birth of Jesus? His resurrection? The promise of God’s forgiveness of our sins? The promise of eternal life? The promise that God loves us? The assurance that death itself is defeated?

 

This is an important question we must diligently consider, for if Jesus is not who He said He and the apostles said He is, then we have no reason for any assurance about the rest of the story. We are still in our sins and without hope of eternal life.

 

Second: If Jesus was a created being, then He could not pay the penalty God requires of you and me for our sins – that being death. The wages of sin is always death, but God’s free gift to us is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord (see Romans 6:23).

 

Listen! This is crucial to our correct understanding of Christ’s deity. Only God could take on Himself the sins of the world. Here is what He tells us through St. John’s pen: My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. And if anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; and He Himself is the propitiation [satisfactory atonement] for our sins; and not for ours only, but also for those of the whole world.” (1 John 2:1-2)

 

Therefore, without God the Son’s death, we have no forgiveness of sins, for a man who is only a man could only pay for his own sins. But the God-Man, the one who created the new covenant, did what no mere man could do.

 

God in Christ could die for our sins because although a Man he lived as any other human lived – except He never sinned. That is why the writer to the Hebrews tells us (4:14-15) – “Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin.”

 

And again in 10:12-14: "When Christ had offered for all time a single sacrifice for sins, he sat down at the right hand of God, waiting from that time until his enemies should be made a footstool for his feet. For by a single offering he has perfected for all time those who are being sanctified."

 

Again, the Scriptures repeatedly tell us only God could take on Himself the sins of the world.

 

Third: If Jesus is not God in the flesh, then the New Covenant God promised through Jeremiah is still waiting for implementation. The writer of the epistle to the Hebrews, quoting from Jeremiah 31, tells us: “For this reason [Christ] is the mediator of a new covenant, so that, since a death (i.e. of sacrificial animals) has taken place for the redemption of the transgressions that were under the first covenant, those who have been called may receive the promise of the eternal inheritance. For where a covenant is, there must of necessity be the death of the one who made it (emphasis mine). For a covenant is valid only when men are dead, for it is never in force while the one who made it lives.” (Hebrews 9)

 

In other words, for the New Covenant to take effect, God, who initiated the New Covenant, HAD TO DIE

 

We all understand the concept of that kind of a covenant. It is like what we call a Last Will and Testament. Nancy and I have such a will. On our death, our heirs will receive their inheritance according to the instructions in our wills. But none of those instructions are executable unless and until we die.

 

And so, regarding the New Covenant (the New Testament), the one who WROTE the specifics of the new covenant had to die for the covenant to be enacted.

 

If Jesus is not God in the flesh, then God has not died, and the New Covenant is not yet in place – which then means we are all without hope and without God in the world. And what St. Paul wrote to the Christians in Ephesus would STILL apply to all of us:

 

“Therefore remember that you, once Gentiles in the flesh—who are called Uncircumcision by what is called the Circumcision made in the flesh by hands— that at that time you were without Christ, being aliens from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers from the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world. But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ.” (Ephesians 2:11-13)

 

I very much hope it is clear by now from Scripture that what we believe about Jesus' deity determines our eternal destiny.

 

So, I will bring this to a close by way of review:

 

First: If Jesus is not Jehovah God incarnate in flesh and blood, then everything He said about His deity, and everything the apostles said of His deity was a lie. And we must then ask ourselves – what ELSE was a lie?

 

Second: If Jesus was a created being, then He could ONLY pay His own God-required penalty for sin. The wages of sin is always death, but God’s free gift to us is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 6:23). And because only God could take on Himself the sins of the world, as St. John wrote in his first epistle, Jesus must be God for Him to be the propitiation – the satisfactory sacrifice for the sins of all who come to Him in repentance.

 

And third: If Jesus is not Jehovah God, then God has not died and therefore the New Covenant has not yet been enacted. You and are I lost in our sins and we will face eternal damnation when we die.

 

I conclude with this encouragement: Jesus told His disciples in the first century – and His eternal words extend to the 21st century, “Do not let your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me.” (John 14:1) (Notice once again, Jesus commanded them to have the SAME confidence, trust and obedience to Him as they have toward Almighty God).

 

THAT is why the faithful Christian can trust Jesus as implicitly as he or she trusts the Father. Because Jesus is the second Person of the Holy Trinity of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

 

And that is also why we can do as Jesus commanded, “Go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Amen.” (Matthew 28:19-20).

 


Sunday, September 19, 2021

Is Jesus God Incarnate?

 Is Jesus God Incarnate? And Why Does it Matter?

Part one of two parts

You can listen to this message on YouTube: 

https://youtu.be/VLLTDEN-ZZA  

 

Over the years I have preached several sermons centered around the resurrection of Jesus. I’ve preached about the subject because without the resurrection of Jesus, there is no such thing as true Christianity. Without the resurrection of Jesus, there is no hope for our salvation. Without the resurrection of Jesus, every person on this planet is doomed to an eternity away from God’s presence.

 

Today and at least for another week, I feel it necessary to focus our full attention on the Holy Trinity as revealed to us in the whole of Scripture as One God in three Persons.

 

Let me say this at the very outset: We are not talking about three gods. We are talking of only One God whom Christians know as the Father, the Son of the Father (Jesus) and the Holy Spirit, who are of one nature, one essence, co-equal and co-eternal with each other. Each a distinct person, yet each identified as God.

 

So, today’s message is part one of two parts which center around the Biblical truth of the Trinity – and specifically of the full and irreducible Deity of Jesus the Christ.

 

Why am I preaching these focused messages? Because as your pastor and Bible teacher, it is my welcomed responsibility to protect us all from theological error. As St Peter tells us in his first epistle, our adversary, the devil, roams about the earth seeking souls to devour. And one way Satan devours souls is by seducing them into diminishing the full glory, weight, and majesty of the DEITY of the Lord Jesus.

That’s why St. Paul wrote to the Christians at Colossae: “See to it that no one takes you captive through philosophy and empty deception, according to the tradition of men, according to the elementary principles of the world, rather than according to Christ. For in Him all the fullness of Deity dwells in bodily form . . . (Colossians 2:8-9)

In that text, and in the verses that follow, the apostle Paul proclaims that the FULLNESS, the completeness of Almighty God resided in Jesus. And how is that possible? Because Jesus IS God incarnate.

Christians often use the term ‘Incarnate’ when referring to the Lord Jesus. But what do we mean when we say Jesus is God incarnate? And why is that an important confession we must make if we hope to be saved from hell?

Let’s back up just a step and, without getting so deep into the realm of theology that this message becomes an academic lecture, let me remind us of how God describes Himself in the Old Testament of the Judeo-Christian Bible:

From the very first verses of Genesis, the Holy Spirit tells us God is the Creator of all that is seen and unseen. He existed before time itself existed. In the beginning, before there was a beginning, before Matter itself existed, before spirits and angels existed, God simply ‘IS’. 

Many of you will remember God described Himself to Moses as: “I AM that I AM.” And then God told him, This is what you are to say to the Israelites: ‘I am has sent me to you.’” (Exodus 3:14). We will come back to this important point in a few minutes.

Also key to our understanding of God as revealed to us in the Bible is this: God is One, but not a numeric one. For simplicity sake, we can say God is a unified one. Remember what He said of Adam and Eve: “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24)

Adam and Eve were two separate individuals, but the Hebrew language in this text identified their union as creating a ‘unified one’ flesh – not a numeric one. Moses used same Hebrew word related to God Himself in multiple texts, for example, Deuteronomy 6:4 - “Hear, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord is one!

Perhaps a helpful way of viewing the triune God is not that He is 1+1+1=3. Rather, He is 1x1x1=1. God is a unified One which is then further defined in the New Testament as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. 

One God, Three Persons who existed before anything else existed – spirit or corporeal, visible or invisible – the Triune God existed in a co-eternal, co-equal, and co-existent relationship with each other.

So then, what does it mean to say Jesus the Son – the second Person of the Trinity – is God incarnate?

Simply stated, and as God the Holy Spirit tells us in multiple Scriptures, the Son took on Himself flesh and blood. Here is how God the Holy Spirit inspired St. John to write in the first verses of chapter one of his gospel:

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things came into being through Him, and apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being . . . And the Word became flesh, and dwelt among us, and we saw His glory, glory as of the only begotten from the Father, full of grace and truth.” (John 1:1-3, 14)

Of Jesus, God the Holy Spirit moved St. Paul to write to the Christians in Philippi. J.B. Phillips renders the text from the Greek this way:  “Let Christ himself be your example as to what your attitude should be. For he, who had always been God by nature, did not cling to his prerogatives as God’s equal, but stripped himself of all privilege by consenting to be a slave by nature and being born as mortal man. And, having become man, he humbled himself by living a life of utter obedience, even to the extent of dying, and the death he died was the death of a common criminal.” (Philippians 2:6ff)

God the Son was incarnate in the flesh and blood body of Jesus. And as incarnate, He was as human as you and I are human – HOWEVER, He was also at the same time fully and completely God because God can never NOT be God.

Just how Jesus became human, yet at the same time remained the Second Person of the Trinity is surely one of the great mysteries of Christianity. And it is extreme hubris that any human should expect to understand all of that in its fullest sense. The finite human mind can never understand the infinite God. Nevertheless, the belief in the Trinity is itself a test of orthodoxy. Our eternal salvation is inextricably linked to what we believe about Jesus’ deity.

St. John wrote his first epistle to those being buffeted by an early heresy called Gnosticism. Gnosticism, among it varied errors, denied the fully deity and humanity of Jesus: By this you know the Spirit of God: every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God; and every spirit that does not confess Jesus is not from God; this is the spirit of the antichrist, of which you have heard that it is coming, and now it is already in the world. (1 John 4:2-3)

And so, through the millennia, to this very moment, those who believe Jesus was a created being – even the highest of created beings, even the best of created beings, even the first of created beings – those who believe Jesus was created by the Father do not believe in the Jesus of the Bible and are in grave danger of being lost for eternity.

Those who believe Jesus was a spirit created along with other spirits, such as Lucifer – making Jesus and Lucifer essentially spirit brothers – those who believe such things do not believe in the Jesus of the Bible and are in grave danger of being lost for eternity.

Those who believe that Jesus was the progeny of the Father, who had physical form, and a human mother – in this case, Mary – do not believe in the Jesus of the Bible and are in grave danger of being lost for eternity. As both Sts. Matthew and Luke tell us, it was God the Holy Spirit who came upon Mary and she conceived Jesus in her womb.

Let me reiterate the point because of its vital importance to our salvation: It has been the faith of the historical Christian church for 2000 years that belief in the Trinity is a test of orthodox Christian faith. All other ideas about Jesus qualify as heresy.

There have always been those who have objected to the idea that Jesus is God incarnate as a man. So, what are some objections to the deity and co-eternality of Jesus with the Father and the Holy Spirit? Let me bring up the most common three – and be quick to add that every historical objection to Christ’s deity is easily answered from the Scriptures.

Objection number one: Jesus said, “The Father is greater than I.” (John 14:28) In fact, Jesus often told His disciples and others that He is doing the Father’s will. Some have read into those statements that Jesus is subservient to the Father. But to think that demonstrates a poor understanding of the nature of the incarnation, during which Jesus took on human flesh and was temporarily “made lower than the angels” (John 1:1-3, 14, Philippians 2:6-10; Hebrews 2:9).

In other words, Jesus temporarily relinquished His divine attributes and subjected Himself to the Father’s will while on earth. And furthermore, subservience in role does not equate to subservience in essence.

For example, Scripture tells us the wife is to be submissive to her husband (Ephesians 5). That is her God-designed role in the family. But her submission does not at all diminish her essence – that being an equal member of the human race and of the husband-wife union. And so, the ‘greater than I’ statement of Jesus relates His ROLE on earth, and not to His fundamental nature which is co-equal with the Father (and the Holy Spirit).

Objection number two: Scripture tells us Jesus was the ‘first born of all creation.” For example, here is part of St. Paul’s letter to the Christians at Colossae: “And He [Jesus] is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities — all things have been created by Him and for Him. And He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.” (Colossians 1:15ff)

But once again, this objection melts away when we look at the original Greek text, and the 1st century middle eastern culture.

Paul did not say Jesus was the first-created. The word he used for firstborn is "prototokos" (pro TOT o kas)– which signifies SUPERIORITY and POSSESSION, not order of birth.  In the culture of the Ancient Near East, the firstborn was not necessarily the oldest child. firstborn referred not to birth order but to rank. The firstborn possessed the inheritance and leadership. And so says Greek scholar Kenneth Wuest about this passage in Colossians:

“The Greek word implied two things, priority to all creation and sovereignty over all creation. In the first meaning we see the absolute pre-existence of the Logos. Since our Lord existed before all created things, He must be uncreated. Since He is uncreated, He is eternal. Since He is eternal, He is God. . . . In the second meaning we see that He is the natural ruler, the acknowledged head of God’s household…He is Lord of creation.”

This follows precisely what St Paul wrote in the next verses of Colossians 1: For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities — all things have been created by Him and for Him. And He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.” (Colossians 1:15ff)

Here again is John 1:1-3 -- “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things came into being through Him, and apart from Him not even one thing came into being that has come into being.”

And again in Hebrews 1:1-3 “God, after He spoke long ago to the fathers in the prophets in many portions and in many ways, in these last days has spoken to us in His Son, whom He appointed heir of all things, through whom He also made the world. And He is the radiance of His glory and the exact representation of His nature and upholds all things by the word of His power.”

A third objection people offer is that Jesus never said He was God. To which we answer – “Yes, He did.”

To the 21st century Western and non-Jewish orthodox reader, at first blush it seems that Jesus never said He was God. But to the first century orthodox Jews, Jesus did refer to Himself as God Almighty on many occasions.

For example: as I mentioned earlier in this message, when Jehovah God spoke to Moses from the burning bush, He referred to Himself as “I AM.” And Jesus, when speaking of Himself, used the same term, I AM, several times, for example, John 8:24; 58; 13:19 and 18:5-6. (Some English translations add the word ‘He’ in italics to indicate the pronoun is NOT in the Greek but was added by the translators).

And so, for example, in John 8:58 when Jesus told the religious leaders: “Before Abraham was born, I Am!”  they fully understood what He meant, and they picked up stones to kill Him for blasphemy.

In John 10:30, Jesus said, “I and the Father are one.” The word Jesus used for ‘one’ means ‘to be of one essence, the same nature.” The orthodox Jews who heard Him make that statement knew very well He was claiming to be God. That’s why they picked up stones to stone Him. When Jesus asked them why they wanted to execute Him, they responded, “For blasphemy, because you, a mere man, claim to be God” (John 10:33). 

In Revelation 21:6-7, Jehovah God reveals himself to us as “the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end.” Yet, in Revelation 22:13, it is now Jesus who reveals Himself with the same language. And because there can only be ONE ‘alpha and omega, the beginning and the end,’ Jesus is Jehovah God incarnate –God who took on flesh and blood.

We took some time to look at only the merest beginning of the evidence that Jesus IS Almighty God, the second Person of the Holy Trinity. But we must not leave the subject matter like this, because there is so much more to be said that substantiates the Biblical truth of Jesus’ full and unqualified deity.

Next week we will look once more at the Biblical evidence that demonstrates who Jesus is, and why it is important for our salvation and our continuing maturity in Christ that we understand this truth of God incarnate in Jesus the Christ.


Sunday, September 12, 2021

When Someone You Love Forsakes You

 When Someone You Love Forsakes You

 My soul weeps because of grief; Strengthen me according to Your word.” (Psalm 119:27) 

 

Life’s disappointments, its griefs, its unanswerable questions sometimes cut deep into the human heart, don’t they? There’s not an adult on this planet who has not learned from personal experience just how deeply any number of life’s circumstances can tear at our souls. But perhaps the deepest cut, the most grievous of them all comes when a loved one turns his or her back on you. Who rejects you. Who forsakes you. And it doesn’t matter what you do or say, nothing changes the person’s mind.

 

And oh! At times such as these, when the soul weeps because of grief, the testimonies of millions of Christians throughout the ages demonstrate again and again – there IS balm, there IS comfort, the IS strength that can be given us by the Holy Spirit through God’s word.

 

The world wants us to think there is no comfort for us from God. Or hope. Or strength. And that is precisely why I want us to look closely this afternoon at God’s word – which assures us of that balm and hope and strength and encouragement even when someone we love forsakes us.

 

And just a word of caution here at the outset of my message: It’s easy for us who have been abandoned by someone we love – it’s often easy to blame ourselves for the abandonment. Satan is good at twisting our thoughts into assuming the blame for the sins of another. Don’t let him saddle you with that lie.

 

The title of today’s message is: When Someone You Love Forsakes You, and the first thing I want to remind us about is this: God knows from personal experience all about rejection – an ‘over the top’ response to something God has done, or not done, that gives a person the excuse to turn and walk away.

 

That’s important to remember that God knows about rejection because remembering will do for us at least two things: 1) It can comfort us to know God grieves with us. And 2) We can learn from God’s example how we can deal with rejection.

 

First, it can be a comfort to know God knows from His own personal experience the pain of rejection: Ezekiel 6:9 (God speaking to Israel) Then those of you who escape will remember Me among the nations to which they will be carried captive, how I have been hurt by their adulterous hearts which turned away from Me, and by their eyes which played the harlot after their idols . . . .

 

And then there is this sad episode in 1 Samuel, after Israel clamored for a king to rule over them instead of their God-appointed judge. We pick up the story in 1 Samuel 8:7 “The Lord said to Samuel, “Listen to the voice of the people in regard to all that they say to you, for they have not rejected you, but they have rejected Me from being king over them. Like all the deeds which they have done since the day that I brought them up from Egypt even to this day—in that they have forsaken Me and served other gods. . .

 

Our Father in heaven understands rejection – as does God in the Flesh, Emmanuel – ‘God-With-Us,’ whom we know as Jesus the Messiah. There is a reason the prophet Isaiah called Him: “ . . . despised and forsaken of men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; And like one from whom men hide their face.  He was despised, and we did not esteem [value] Him. (Isaiah 53)

 

Yes, we can be comforted to know God really does understand our grief, and secondly, we can better follow His example as we cope with the grief caused by being forsaken by someone we love.

 

Know this also: It is okay to cry.  Jesus cried over His beloved sheep in Jerusalem who’d rejected Him: Luke 19:41ff  41 When He approached Jerusalem, He saw the city and wept over it, 42 saying, “If you had known in this day, even you, the things which make for peace! But now they have been hidden from your eyes. 43 For the days will come upon you when your enemies will throw up a barricade against you, and surround you and hem you in on every side, 44 and they will level you to the ground and your children within you, and they will not leave in you one stone upon another, because you did not recognize the time of your visitation.”

 

The Lord knew what would happen to those who’d forsaken Him – He knew that within a few decades the Roman army would ravage their way across Jerusalem.

 

Yes, it is okay to weep, not only for your own loss, but because you know their rejection of you will likely come back around and devour them sometime later in their life.

 

St. Paul talks about that spiritual law in his letter to the church at Galatia: Galatians 5:14ff  14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 15 But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another.

 

“Sin,” it’s been wisely stated, “will take you where you do not want to go, keep you longer than you want to stay, and cost more than you want to pay.”

 

Yes, it is good to weep, BUT never forget this: You don’t weep alone. Jesus catches every tear in His bottle. As the psalmist David wrote of God in Psalm 56:8  You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle.  You have recorded each one in your book. 

 

When David refers to tear bottles, he draws our attention to an common practice in both ancient and modern Middle Eastern and Egyptian societies. Mourners catch their tears in small vials and place them at gravesides or some other place of great meaning to illustrate their love for the one who is gone. When David said of God, You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book”, David reminds himself, and he reminds us in 2021 America, that God does know of our pain. He always feels and empathizes with our sorrows.

 

2. Yes, it is good to cry when a loved one forsakes us. But what else can we do? We can continue to love them. With God’s help, continue to love them, even if we must love them from afar.

 

God knows about loving from afar. Here is what He tells Israel through the prophet Jeremiah 31:3 “The Lord appeared to him [to Israel] from far away. I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you. (Jeremiah 31:3  NRSV).

 

Did you catch that? The forsaken lover – God, in this text – broken by Israel’s abandonment, continued to love them, even from a distance. That’s part of the message of the Prodigal Son.

 

We’ve talked about the Prodigal many times – and I return to it for a moment to make an important point. The Lord Jesus doesn’t give us much detail about the Father’s anguish over his son’s demand. But I think we can extrapolate from our own life’s experiences and from the rest of this story how the father grieved over his son’s decision. The father, knowing he could do nothing to change the boy’s mind,  gave him his share of the inheritance – and let him go.

 

But did the father ever stop loving him? Of course not. The father always loved his son – although now he had to love him from a distance. I imagine the father worked his farm every day with one eye on the horizon, hoping for his son’s return.

 

Loving from afar is also exemplified in the relationship the Lord Jesus had with – of all people – Judas. You’ll find the story in John 13:

 

Now before the Feast of the Passover, Jesus knowing that His hour had come that He would depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end. During supper, the devil having already put into the heart of Judas Iscariot, the son of Simon, to betray Him, Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come forth from God and was going back to God, *got up from supper, and *laid aside His garments; and taking a towel, He girded Himself.

 

You know the rest of the story. The Lord proceeded to wash each of the disciple’s feet.  Including Judas’ feet – even though the Lord knew what the man was about to do. And Matthew tells us what happened when Judas led the soldiers to the Garden of Gethsemane. Matthew 26:49-51 49 Immediately Judas went to Jesus and said, “Hail, Rabbi!” and kissed Him. 50 And Jesus said to him, “Friend, do what you have come for.” Then they came and laid hands on Jesus and seized Him.

 

Jesus washed Judas’ feet, and called him, “Friend” – even though His friend had betrayed Him for a couple of dollars. I want you to get this: John tells us that Jesus loved Judas even to the end.

 

So, when we are forsaken it’s good to weep, and to love, even from a distance. And what else can we do when we are forsaken?  What others example does God give us as we follow in His steps?

 

3.We can pray. Don’t ever stop praying for the person who has hurt you. I think praying for that person will be easier if we remember the spiritual battle we are BOTH locked in. Satan has always – even from the Garden of Eden – the devil has always sought to destroy the family. And in the destruction of the family, he knows it’s then easier to pick off one by one members of those families.

 

Remember, Satan has blinded their spiritual eyes, he has dulled their spiritual ears and hardened their spiritual hearts for the ultimate destruction of their souls.  Pray! Only weapons of spiritual warfare are effective in this kind of battle for their soul – and for yours.

 

But what can we do about a person who had forsaken us and has already died?  Pray. Pray that God had mercy on them before they died. And hold on to your confidence that God did, in His mercy, give them one last chance to repent – even as they lay on their hospice bed or in an intensive care unit in some hospital.

 

I was reminded again as I prepared this message, of the Good Thief on the cross next to Jesus. It’s very unlikely that any of that man’s relatives – including his mother or father – were at that cross watching him die. They would have feared to be associated with him, or the Romans might take THEM into custody and crucified them as well.

 

And so, while it is likely none of his family heard his conversation with the Lord Jesus and the other criminal crucified with them, you and I know of the conversation: (Luke 23:39ff)

 

One of the criminals who were hanged there was hurling abuse at Him, saying, “Are You not the Christ? Save Yourself and us!” 40 But the other answered, and rebuking him said, “Do you not even fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? 41 And we indeed are suffering justly, for we are receiving what we deserve for our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong.” 42 And he was saying, “Jesus, remember me when You come in Your kingdom!” 43 And He said to him, “Truly I say to you, today you shall be with Me in Paradise.”

 

God’s mercy extends to every man and woman to their last breath. So pray that God had mercy on your loved one who died without reconciling with you. Pray that God offered him or her that one last chance to seek forgiveness from the Lord of love. Here is what the Scripture tells us of His mercy:

 

2 Peter 3:9  The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.”

 

And Ezekiel 18:32   Speaking to a faithless Israel, God said this: 32 For I have no pleasure in the death of anyone who dies,” declares the Lord God. Therefore, repent and live.”

 

4. And finally, what else can we do when someone we love forsakes us?

Prepare your heart ahead of time for reconciliation. Now let’s be realistic – reconciliation might never happen. We all know of families who have never reconciled. God has gifted all humanity with free will. He will never force us to do what we choose not to do. It’s the precious gift He has given us – knowing all the while that even He would suffer heartache when those He created, when those He loves, exercised that gift to turn away from Him.

 

But, if it should happen, and the one you have loved from afar, the one for whom you have prayed perhaps for decades, wants to reconcile – receive them with open arms. Don’t ever hold their earlier decision against them.

1 Corinthians 13: Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”

 Think back again to the Prodigal Son story. When the younger son returned home, the father ran toward him, embraced him, and threw a party to celebrate. “For this son of mine,” the father rejoiced before his servants, “this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; He was lost and has been found.

 

Life’s disappointments, its sorrows, its unanswerable questions cut deeply into the human heart. And as I said at the beginning of this message, perhaps especially grievous is the wound caused when someone you love forsakes you.

 

God knows from personal experience your grief. He grieves with you. But perhaps more to the point of this message, God has also given us a godly way to cope with our hurting heart.

 

Believe God hurts with you. And cry. And love. And pray. And be ready to reconcile. In doing these things, we will be following the godly path, the godly examples He has given us in His word.

 

It was the psalmist who said – and may the Holy Spirit sweeten those words to our wounded souls: “Weeping may last for the night, but a shout of joy comes in the morning.”  (Psalm 30:5)